posted in Asklemmy
Gays, how do you feel about straight girls in gay bars when it's a live DJ night?
Replying to @return2ozma@lemmy.world
I’m not gay nor have I been to a live DJ night at a gay bar nor am I a straight girl, but I would wager that anyone coming in a gay bar isn’t a problem as long as they’re not being a dick, just like with any other bar.
Replying to @Diddlydee@feddit.uk
I imagine one reason for coming to a gay bar as a gay person is to feel more confident in who you can “approach”.
Replying to @victorz@lemmy.world
People are still going to say no? It just increases the density of options.
Replying to @Pomal@sh.itjust.works
Yeah, that was my only point, that it reduces the risk of hitting on someone who doesn’t share your preference.
Replying to @victorz@lemmy.world
You’ll run up into that barrier everywhere. It’s called discrimination for a reason.
Replying to @Pomal@sh.itjust.works
Not entirely sure if I understand your comment, but I guess my point is that a gay bar would be a place where you don’t expect to run into that. 👍