I never tried deploying Jami, as I settled on XMPP for this use-case. But, let us know how it goes if you do try it! I haven’t seen many review it before so I’d be interested to hear your experience.

Postscript: it went terribly. That is…it worked perfectly on test devices / with test accounts. Then I thought "ok…this has potential! Then it shat the bed, in a way I couldn’t grok (and frankly, I didn’t have the energy to trouble shoot).

Then I thought “fine…clearly Jami is flaky. LiveKit and MatrixRTC are shitty with Synapse…I know X wants to video call Y…let me try a clean cut over to Continuwuity + Tailscale”.

…and now I hate everything and everyone.

So, that probably means I will try Jami again one more time and then just switch to Snikket.

The moral of the story is: I should have played with dollies as a kid instead of computers, because this exact pattern of fuckery has been the bane of my existence near on half a century now.

Le-fucking-sigh.

Fuck it; I’m going get Claude to set this up. “Claude, take the fucking wheel and make no mistakes.”

Ahhh, sorry to hear it :(

I should have play with dollies as a kid instead of computers

Probably we’d all be happier :)

So, that probably means I will try Jami again one more time and then just switch to Snikket.

Good luck! I hope it goes well