It’s pretty unsettling that someone could stay in a private community for so long without anyone realizing. Discord can feel casual, but when private conversations are involved, it’s worth being more careful about who has access and what information is being shared. Even things like choosing a distinctive username, sometimes with a letra diferente para copiar, are small details people tend to personalize.

Discord is not secure, period.

Use trusted software with end-to-end encryption with only trusted people and hope to hell they don’t get hacked or raided.