Yeah I feel like that too. If I go and start questioning her and all of this, she’ll just think I’m “the enemy”. I need to make sure she won’t shut down… But I’m at a loss, how do you break someone from something like this? She is a rational, intelligent, well educated woman, and this is shit she falls for? It just boggles my mind, I just need some help and talk to people about it because I don’t know what to do…