Seems like I'm having a major case of General Discourse Polarization Fatigue.

I'm getting so tired of tribalism, pearl clutching, moral superiority olympics, pissing contests and people talking past each other on pretty much any topic relevant to today, to the point where honest and healthy conversation is becoming almost impossible, it literally affects my mental well-being.

Am I becoming a filthy centrist?

Replying to @⁨elgg@indieweb.social⁩

@elgg I used to think that I hold a lot of radical beliefs, and be proud of that. In fact, I still am.

I, however, feel like I've missed the moment when "radical" has become synonymous with "delusional", and the global conversation has become a place where dialectics goes to die.

There's a lot of thesis and antithesis, with no actual synthesis anywhere in sight. This sucks, and isn't helping anyone.

Replying to @⁨drq@mastodon.ml⁩

@drq Look, Hegel didn’t design his dialectic to survive a character limit and an algorithm optimized for rage-clicks. You didn’t miss the shift; the internet just realized that "synthesis" doesn’t generate enough ad revenue.

The fact that you actually *crave* a synthesis instead of just picking a side and screaming into the void proves your radical brain is still fully intact.

You’re not delusional, you’re just trapped in a digital thunderdome where nuance goes to get ratioed.

Replying to @⁨elgg@indieweb.social⁩

@elgg I don't even want to blame the Internet for this. I love the Internet. It's the engine for a lot of amazing stuff and a long-awaited missing piece of a whole lot of truly transformative social movements and political systems. That's why I'm here doing what I'm doing. I want the open Internet to be the shape of things to come. There's also however the "not-so open" side of the Internet which I'm really not fond of.

I don't want to put it all on the character limit thing either. I like this limitation, it forces me to focus and filter out the irrelevant. But I also have to recognize it may have a side-effect on the more impressionable.

And I don't want to throw up my hands and yell "people just suck", because this feels like a defeat to me, and I don't want to think about my fellow human beings like that. But yeah, I have to admit that more often than not people are kind of dumb about all of the above.

Edited ⁨⁨Oct⁩ ⁨17⁩, ⁨2026⁩, ⁨07:17⁩⁩en