this is how so many marriages end with abusers.

but ok…i guess we just blame the victims for abusers who own the ultimate choice over their own behaviour

You’re right, it’s better to pretend abusers don’t exists and don’t take any precautions. Leave our door open, use single password for everything and carry wallets in our back pockets. When something bad happens we’ll just blame the criminal and everything will be fixed.

wow ok i get it. you hate victims. you know who else hates their victims? abusers. you talk like an abuser there with how much you hate victims.

I’ve seen dozens of cautionary tales written by abused women, telling others how abusers operate, what to look out for and what to do to stay safe. I guess all those women hate victims too.

Remember kids, if you give full control of you car to someone else you will have a bad time.

This isn’t advice, it’s victim blaming. It’s Pucci’s fault that he took control of her car and terrorized her.

Yes, I know, woman would have to say it to for it o be an advice. If a man says it it’s victim blaming.

It has nothing to do with gender and everything with you literally blaming the victim instead of the abuser.

You always do the same thing and it’s getting boring. You come in with your cookie cutter narrative and try to silence everyone who dares to say something different. Not opposite, not contrary - just different. You see every deviation for you simplistic narrative as being being equally bad. You think I didn’t know this is exactly how you will react to my comment? I was sure you will show up and try to silence me as I was typing it. To be clear, if you get robbed and I say “you should get an alarm” I’m not blaming you and defending the robber. I know it’s incomprehensible to you but two things can be true at the same time: the abuser can be 100% at fault and people can do things to limit the possibility of being abused. Lemmy is full of technologically capable people. Pointing out here that you should control your devices is not an extreme view here. It’s factual statement. That being said, I’m bored and I will just ignore you from now on.

if you give full control of you car to someone else you will have a bad time.

You made a comment only blaming the victim and saying nothing about the abuser.

was sure you will show up and try to silence me as I was typing it.

I am happy that I am having enough influence on Lemmy to make people like you second guess when they leave comments like this blaming only the victim and saying nothing about the abuser.

wow so you cant see the difference there either. you abusers sure all love telling on yourselves.

I see prejudice, that’s enough.

I see so if your parents get scammed for every last penny leaving you no inheritance because they were too embarrassed and felt a bottomless pit of shame and humiliation to come forward about scam artists because no one can be vulnerable around you because you blame them for any misfortune. They can’t turn to you just for some strength or advice to do next steps for disaster management because disasters, challenges and growth aren’t permitted in your world.

And let me guess: everyone in the world ‘annoys’ you.

Wonderful relationship and empathy material of a typical npd.

Remember, Tesla added this feature after widespread demand for parental controls on use following an incident in which a teenager killed themselves by driving too fast. People asked why they couldn’t override the car with parental controls if that feature was a technical possibility and there was even talk of using legal force to make them do it if they didn’t voluntarily comply.

Tesla requiring proof that the limited account belonged to a minor was not going to be permitted. Parents did this to us.

I doubt it was parents. It was probably the same people that run all the parents rights groups: fundamental Christian extremists.

It literally was the parents

www.nbcmiami.com/news/local/…/2809687

“Valet mode” also exists because valets were joyriding people’s Teslas

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