by the way you say it, it sounds like the city/situation you live in is a dump and you hate it too much to bear. hate kids? maybe you miss community?
does spending your weekend chilling elsewhere far away sound appealing to you? is it really about getting away from something bad or more about getting into something cool like a new group of people?
whenever i feel like that, i will go somewhere secluded for a few hours, or stay up late for the peace. i do have things i need to get away from in the back of my mind though.