You can’t tell people somebody can’t go to a funeral, especially a family member. It’s not about societal norm, it’s about respect. Also, who cares if those assholes would be there. You wouldn’t be there for them, you’d be there for your father.
If you skip his funeral, you’d be doing him a huge disrespect, but if that’s what you want, in your own word: knock yourself out.
You can’t tell people somebody can’t go to a funeral, especially a family member. It’s not about societal norm, it’s about respect. Also, who cares if those assholes would be there. You wouldn’t be there for them, you’d be there for your father.
If you skip his funeral, you’d be doing him a huve disrespect, but if that’s what you want, in your own word: knock yourself out.