That’s a known issue. There might be some improvements for you with the upcoming version 1.0. I’m not sure if that’s gradual improvement or more fundamental changes… But many parts of the moderation system aren’t perfect and everyone is aware of its limitations. I think you’re invited to help out if you can contribute code, come up with a specification that works smoothly in real-life (including edge-cases), become a mod and do a better job at it than the current ones, or anything like that.
I guess complaining is fine as well. But you really don’t want to be part of the problem at the same time. Nobody is going to listen to you this way. You want to be part of the solution to give some weight to your words/opinion.
And good luck with your opinion how Reddit is better than this place… As far as I know they have way better systems to track you, prevent ban-evasion, they have some fully automatic systems to silence you… You can’t even look at what kind of information they keep about you… That’s kinda caprice as we do times a thousand if you ask me. But you’re also invited to use that platform if you like it better?!