It’s complicated, but you’ll pick it up as you go. I’m pretty cautious about discussing what is or isn’t a dogwhistle out in the open because, like you said, people are watching for eachother to slip up.
Okay you probably aren’t into anything that would scare most people, it’s just easy to draw certain folk’s ire. There have been conversations had in this space recently about it. Good luck, I know you’ll make some friends soon 🙂