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On the title: One of us, one of us…

On the text, it should be said that not liking loud party situations is actually pretty common. There’s lots of people who like drawing and cooking; that alone doesn’t mean you’ll be lonely. If you want to meet people who are into those things, groups do exist.

You do have to listen to people talk, and care about what they’re saying, though. Unless you never talk to anyone else about your interests or problems (and this thread is literally about your problems), that’s just fair turnaround. Not doing so makes you a jerk, not superior or something, which, TBH, is the vibe you’re giving off.

On the title: One of us, one of us…

On the text, it should be said that not liking loud party situations is actually pretty common. There’s lots of people who like drawing and cooking; that alone doesn’t mean you’ll be lonely. If you want to meet people who are into those things, groups do exist.

You do have to listen to people talk, and care about what they’re saying, though. Unless you never talk to anyone else about your interests or problems (and this thread is literally about your problems), that’s just fair turnaround. Not doing so makes you a jerk, not superior or something, which, TBH, is the vibe you’re giving off.

This is Lemmy, so on the title: One of us, one of us…

On the text, it should be said that not liking loud party situations is actually pretty common. There’s lots of people who like drawing and cooking; that alone doesn’t mean you’ll be lonely. If you want to meet people who are into those things, groups do exist.

You do have to listen to people talk, and care about what they’re saying, though. Unless you never talk to anyone else about your interests or problems (this thread is literally about your problems), that’s just fair turnaround. Not doing so makes you a jerk, not superior or something, which, TBH, is the vibe you’re giving off.

This is Lemmy, so on the title: One of us, one of us…

On the text, it should be said that not liking loud party situations is actually pretty common. There’s lots of people who like drawing and cooking, that alone doesn’t mean you’ll be lonely. If you want to meet people who are into those things, groups do exist.

You do have to listen to people talk, and care about what they’re saying, though. Unless you never talk to anyone else about your interests or problems (this thread is literally about your problems), that’s just fair turnaround. Not doing so makes you a jerk, not superior or something, which, TBH, is the vibe you’re giving off.

This is Lemmy, so on the title: One of us, one of us…

On the text, it should be said that not liking loud party situations is actually pretty common. There’s lots of people who like drawing and cooking, that alone doesn’t mean you’ll be lonely. If you want to meet people who are into those things, groups do exist.

You do have to listen to people talk, and care about what they’re saying, though. Unless you never talk to anyone else about your interests or problems (like you’re doing in this thread), that’s just fair turnaround. Not doing so makes you a jerk, not superior or something, which is the vibe you’re giving off.